Some time ago, in a forum in Wuhan, a child of a 7-year-old child posted “I want to buy a pair of NIKE caterpillar, my husband is on the scene.”
After this post is issued, many netizens are discussed.
In the post, the mother said that she wants her child to wear shoes, but her husband believes that there is no need, the child is not worth it, I don’t agree with her,
The husband and wife are therefore
. This mother said that he as a mother, I want to buy a pair of shoes for the child, is this too?
The post is as follows
How do you say it? Don’t wait for the pay-class, you can now look around, children who wear Nike caterpillar simply don’t be too much, its comfort, convenience is also good for children.
Self-feeling, my family conditions are not very bad, 2 sets of central urban houses, couples are nearly 200,000, only a 7-year-old child. Although I can’t talk about the rich family, I can’t let him wear a pair of good shoes?
Husband’s entanglement is nothing more: the child’s foot is still growing, I bought it for shortness, and I think this will help him compare my heart, vanity.
People around, some months have more than 3,000, they are trying to make their children with good, carry light luxury bags, they are also apple mobile phones … but my husband is a very faster than people, just It is not necessary to use it if it is worthless, and I don’t agree with me.
It turned out that I have been in favor of this, diligence is virtue, but how to say, some people can understand, sometimes I don’t want to pass this kind of ignorant day, occasionally a little better for myself and my family, very too much?
What’s more, the shoes are not the child, just as a mother, I want to give him a good shoe. It’s that simple.
After the post was issued, many netizens expressed their own opinions and divided into a few:
Everyone thinks differently, doing mothers want to give their baby the best, I will bought it for my baby, wearing comfortable.
I am a mother, I want me to buy, my father has little baby, the sense of responsibility is not so strong, there is no kind to give the best heart, otherwise, how to say Mamao, do not say dad, let him ten Month pregnancy, take the baby every day.
I think your husband does it. As a mother, how much is your decision or because of others, afraid that the child lost, in fact, where the child itself will think so much. From the extravagant extravagant. Waiting for him to make money, how to buy it.
I think your husband is very good, the price is also wrong? The child is so fast, really is not worth it.
Don’t you buy a brand name?
In fact, this example is a lot in life,
Most people are mainly the following points:
One is that living conditions is good, many people are only children, the conditions are allowed, and they can buy a brand to children.
The other is that the child is so fast, there is no need to buy a very expensive clothes, wearing comfortable.
Now life conditions are good, there are many parents feel that the small children now have too much happiness than yourself. For compensation psychology, many mothers will buy the most beautiful clothes for their children. The little girl dressed as a small princess, the little boy dressed as a children’s clothing model. In short, you have to enjoy your childhood, let your child enjoy.
In the case of conditions permit, buy a brand name to the child, meet the child’s material requirements, not for
But the most important thing is
Be sure to emphasize your own efforts and struggle!
Can’t let your child just look bright appearance
Some netizens took out their own experiences:
Once I took the big treasure to travel, the passengers sitting opposite the sleeper were a mother and daughter. The girl is very beautiful, wearing like a small princess. I really like the little girl in the first place, but the little girl later made me completely change her impression.
Her mother gave her a lot of snacks. Every time she had snacks, she had to ran to Dabao, and they looked at the snacks before the big treasure, and a look, said: “Look, I have this, you don’t have it. ? “Then I deliberately bitten it.
Fortunately, my big treasure is strong enough, I didn’t have a trouble. Otherwise, I can’t buy the same snacks with her hands on the train. I was surprised that the girl mother did not see her words and deeds, did not stop the meaning. I looked at the girl suddenly flashing, and my heart silently sigh.
This netizen feels:
Parents dress up children,
Can’t let your child just look good appearance, and ignore the soul wrapped in the clothes.
After all, the clothes worth all of Gold can’t cover up the education of cold. Only the losers are not respectful, the ancients’ sigh happened in children, and people feel sorry.
More expensive clothes, will eventually be out of time; more beautiful faces will finally drop. and
Good education is the wealth of children’s lifelong.
The more excellent people, the more humble, and naturally get more people’s help, thus going to greater success.
Love is not a favor
Talking about the child’s education, the parenting of the star Huang Lei couple makes many parents praise. Recently, Huang Lei’s wife Sun Li shared a lot of big daughters on Weibo. There are a lot of fun in the video, and the fingertips will be played hard on the forehead. Netizens can’t help but sigh a lot of women’s 18th, and there are a lot of little girls in memory, and now I have grown into a bright girl, and it is more and more beautiful!
Some people pay more perfect growth in Huang Lei
However, it ignored the true meaning of “rich” and did not provide a good economic foundation for the child, but Huang Lei said.
The real “rich” is to raise with love and give them a childhood.
For him, good educational methods have also achieved a warm and happy family.
Huang Lei is a lot of love
I will realize how much she is not a special child. All the children are special at home, and the adults turn around the child, but in society, no one is special. Many truths, our adults understand, but also let children understand.
Huang Lei wrote a letter to his daughter “Select a way to live in a way”, I hope that her daughter wants to do things, get along with people who like to live in a life. Some parents hope that children can strive to become “a few”, Huang Lei hopes to become ordinary and simple “Most”.
Really richness is spiritual education
Most of the parents want to cultivate their daughters into “princess”, so that they look noble and beautiful, kind and bright, but
The real “Princess” education is to let her feel love,
It becomes sunshine in love; it is necessary to give her enough security, let her know that even if she is not perfect enough, your embrace will still open her; if you want to take a relationship, build a solid role for her growth And the source of strength.
And for children’s education,
Whether it is a poor and rich,
The most important thing is the spiritual education
: You can buy it without money, but you can teach her to work hard; you can take her to learn this, but ask you to teach her to study; maybe you can’t give her life Thought, talent, will, but at least
Passing her a hoped fire, providing a fertile fertile soil, giving her real “rich”.
It is necessary to be a deep far.
The child’s mind is like a white paper.
As a parent,
What do you want to write on this white paper?
It’s better to use love.
Source: Hubei, her journal, phoenix private
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