One day after get off work, I saw the kindergarten group reminding parents to arrange some housework for their children at home. I thought for a while, washing dishes, rubbing the tables.
“Get the toy”
Three words hit my brain like Apple.
That’s right, this child hasn’t collected toys for a long time. After brushing his teeth every night, he goes to bed, and leaves a stall in a house for grandma to collect it. Often, grandma just stuffs the toy to a casual place. If you need it, you can’t find it, or you haven’t played it once a year. Just to buy a new toy for the baby today, I decided to take this opportunity to carry out a “big sword” reform.
Back at home, of course, the first thing that came into my eyes was that the mountains that were everywhere were seen everywhere, and the baby that was highly immersed in the game at a certain corner. In the usual way, I must change my shoes and continue to go to the room. I have n’t completed the work. These are just the environment that I stayed in my eyes for dozens of seconds when I changed my shoes. But today I am different. Looking at the baby’s back, I was thinking about how to start my “reform” in my mind. At this time, my grandmother came up to complain and said that he would help him collect toys. I told grandma that his toy would be collected by himself in the future. He now educates himself to collect toys by himself.
I approached the baby, squatted down, and said to him, “Baby, my mother bought you a new toy.” Then, I wrapped the toy in front of his eyes. At first glance, the baby in his hand was not fragrant, and he reached out to get a new toy.
I didn’t give it to him immediately, but pointed to the messy toys behind him and said, “Baby, you see, your toys are finished, there is no toy. You can’t care about your toys. “Baby is silent. I continue to say, “Now, my mother collects toys with you, and then I can give you a new toy. From today, I have to collect the toys after playing with the toys every day, or you do n’t want to play with the toy after playing. Go home and take out a new toy to play, do you know? “The baby said softly,” I know. “
So I pulled up his little hand, went out of the room to take out scissors, transparent glue and color paper: “Wait a minute, we make a new home for toys that are not yet home, and every toy has a house where there is , Mom is responsible for the puzzle. “
The baby didn’t speak, and then ran to the small bicycle, and said on the top saying, “Mom collects toys.”
I was speechless, so I had to pick up a new toy: “Do you want new toys?”
The baby’s eyes lighted again, saying, “Yes!” Come over. I said, “Why did you just collect your toys? These toys were taken out by yourself, doing your own things, and you took it out by yourself. You must send the toy home by yourself.”
If the baby thinks about, he starts to walk over to clean up the blocks. At the beginning, he said that he had finished it, and asked me to point out the omissions to collect them. Later, I thought about a block of the building blocks jumping into the swimming pool, imagining the building blocks as children, jumping into the swimming pool to play with water. After collecting the building blocks, the enthusiasm of the baby has improved, and he said that he would still receive a card. I promised. At this time, I also received the same and the same toys under his eyelids.
After both of us have “home” toys, we started to be a new home for “homeless” toys. Before I made a “home” of a certain type of toy with a idle box, I would consult the baby’s opinion. The baby generally agreed. Then I let him choose the color of the color paper and write a specific type of toy on the color paper. After this is completed, let the baby send the toys in, and let him remember that this type of toy will be returned to this box in the future.
In this way, the original toy park was cleaned up. Although the number of toys was large, it did not affect the neat and beautiful, and even became the most eye -catching corner in the house. At this point, I rewarded the new toy to the baby, and he was happy.
The next day, when I arrived at 8:30 in the evening, I began to urge him to collect toys. I was unwilling at first, and I wanted to play, I made an appointment with him for another five minutes. When the “big man” was referred to “7”, it was collected. In this way, the baby is willing to fulfill the agreement to collect toys. Persist every day. Although sometimes it is too late, I also insist on collecting toys and then brushing their teeth to sleep, or sometimes brushing their teeth before receiving it. In short, we must persist.
In the process of packing toys, I summarized the following practical ideas:
(1) Putting up the mentality.
From the beginning, it was necessary to think that cleaning the toy was a baby’s own score, not what his grandparents did to help him. After the mentality is positive, we can be gentle and firm during education and guidance. They are not defeated by his “selling cute and selling tragedy”, and you can prevent it like “baby is very sleepy. The three days of sun exposure occurred in three days.
(2) Toys must have a clear classification and storage position.
Each toy belongs to its storage position. The storage location must be seen in the text or picture logo that the baby grandparents can understand. And the location of each storage should be fixed. If there is a change, tell the baby in time. When making the storage location, you need to make it with your baby. In some links that reflect personality such as color, size, etc., you must obtain the consent of the baby.
(3) At the beginning, we need to collect toys with the baby.
At the beginning, it was unrealistic to let the baby go to storage by himself. On the one hand, the baby was originally resisting to do this, and the enthusiasm was not high; second, he didn’t know how to start. At this stage, the adults need to start the baby to store together, and give the necessary guidance in it, so that the baby has a knowledge of the category and return of his toy. When the baby can take the initiative to accept the toy, let him accept it independently. Not late.
(4) Get the support of family members.
Especially the elderly at home must discuss with them, and they can collect toys with them, but they cannot collect toys for their children. In this way, children can ensure that the habit of cultivating children to collect toys is not interrupted.
(5) Add interesting elements during the storage process.
For example, storage of building blocks can be imagined that many children are jumping into the swimming pool. Each jump into a building block said a number, and the baby is interested in instantly. Children are playing with sex, games, as long as they are appropriate, they will never be outdated.
Educating children is like long water flowing. It needs patience and persistence. Among them, you need to continue to start your brain and change your mind. At the moment of harvesting, you feel that everything is worth it.
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