My old mother, my mother’s family is our neighboring village, Dama Ling Village, which is far apart from Qili Road. The mother ranks the boss at home, and there are two younger sisters and a younger brother.
My mother -in -law died early, and my grandfather became a father and a mother again. Coinciding with the 32nd year of the Republic of China, the natural disaster war, my grandfather’s family could not survive. According to people, my mother came to my house as a child. My grandfather has four sons and lacks daughter.
At that time, my grandfather’s house had land, houses, and gardens. The mother was only 13 years old when she entered the house. Because her mother had no mother since she was a child, she did not learn pancakes and needle lines. After coming, I followed my grandma while studying housework.
After the twenty -three lunar month, my grandfather came to pick up my mother and return to my mother’s house for the New Year. One year, my grandmother gave birth to my four uncle. I couldn’t work as a confinement, and my mother couldn’t leave. I was looking forward to the 30th year, and my grandfather came to pick up my mother home for the New Year.
A teenage girl came to a strange home and sent a fence. At that time, the family rules were very strict. You ca n’t make the door. You ca n’t go to the table for meals. First, you can eat the elders to eat before you can eat it yourself. Once the grandparents finished their meals, Grandpa had no intention of picking the remaining pancakes on the cabinet. The mother couldn’t eat enough. I was so hungry that I could n’t do it, so I stepped on the bench to get pancakes. The grandma who entered the door saw it. The grandmother counted it casually, thinking that she was not delicious while eating, and came to eat again.
After liberation, my father worked in the Boshan Pump Pink because my uncle was also working there. In the early 1950s, after my parents got married, my mother lived with my father in Boshan. Later, I remembered that I had been there. I lived in a fair village on the Fangyan Village on the Shanjin Factory. My second brother was born in Boshan. When you come out to find a job, it’s easy to find, and the hukou is easy to do. My uncle has moved out of the hukou. Grandpa’s son is afraid of going out, and no one is pushing for the elderly, so my mother’s account is suppressed and refused to move.
If the hukou cannot be relocated, he will return to the village. My mother coexisted four of our siblings. I have a sister and two younger brothers. We are all young in our hometown, and our father does not often come back. The mother took us alone, and after thousands of hardships, we supported us.
At that time, the production team was divided into grain. After paying public food, the team left seeds and feed. The feed is mainly used by the production team to raise cattle and donkeys, cattle cultivated land, donkey feces. The remaining seven labor and three points are allocated.
At that time, there was no leisure in the village, and they had to work for collective work. There are many mulberries in our hometown, and the production team organizes silkworms. My mother also participated in silkworms. Began to raise half a silkworm cloth, and later raised a silkworm cloth. We squeezed in a room to sleep and poured out a silkworm. When the silkworm first came out, the mulberry leaves should be cut with scissors very thinly and sprinkled it on it. The main task of raising silkworms is the mulberry leaves uphill. After the mulberry leaves are collected, they should be cool first, so that the silkworm leaves with dew. For a while, the silkworm was old. Make wheat straw into a mesh fan -shaped cluster to prepare for clusters in advance. After the silkworm climb up to make cocoons. After the cocoon can be done, how many days can be collected, and it can be sent to the village cocoon field uniformly.
Once the mother had not returned for a long time, and then an uncle hurriedly came to report to the letter. It was said that my mother fell off the mulberry tree, and everyone was carrying her to the hospital. At that time, several of us were small, and we knew that we were crying, and we couldn’t help. The uncle and the elderly sent the mothers to the Boshan No. 1 Hospital. At that time, the medical conditions were limited, and the treatment was sutured without recovery. After raising for a while, the mother was discharged from the child because she remembered the child at home. From then on her waist, she couldn’t stand up, and her waist was bent even more. Later, I went to the place where my mother fell down. The mulberry tree suddenly broke on the weir head of more than four meters high. From the top, it was a blessing to save her life.
The mother dragged the disease and also supported the home. At that time, the living was very heavy. There was no electricity in the village, and the oil lamp. All the grains are manually grinded and processed. We are basically pancakes and are mostly eaten with acidic pancakes. Pull the corn surface with dry and dry, and then push it into a paste with water. Then scrape the paste into the pot, and the water before brushing the water, brush into the paste pot. For the third time, brush the water, and put it in the pupae to feed pigs. Pancake paste in winter is placed in a warm place, similar to the current hair. The pancakes are very hard, burning the firewood or corn straw, corn ravioli, bean straw, etc. The pancakes on the mule, smoked and fired, a stall was 2 or 3 hours, and the tired waist could not be straight.
At that time, the vegetable oil was less and water, and I could eat 3 or 4 pancakes in one meal. A few and a half -sized boys, a few hours of pancakes, can eat one -third of breakfast. So at that time, three days of grinding, the old mother went quietly tomorrow. We are still sleeping, remembering that winter is particularly cold, and we have a quilt in the morning. The old mother said while grinding. She took a few corn straws, put it on the stove, put our cotton pants like a chimney, stood it on the fire a few times, and then put it in the bed. We put it on while it was hot.
Sometimes I get up early to help my mother cook on fire, and sometimes help for a while. Pushing is the most dry work, long time. Mother has to make vegetables and make residue tofu. In addition, feeding pigs and chickens should be feeded. In the morning, the old mother was busy before they were busy.
At that time, the family wore it hand -made by my mother. At the beginning, I was still spinning, looking for weaving, and dyeing my own. Later, there were foreign cloth, flat lines, and oblique lines. Sometimes in the 30th night of the year, the mother was still under oil lamps, and the children’s clothes for the New Year. Shoes are also made by yourself, and in winter, use boards. The shoes of walking mountain roads are particularly fast, and the shoes often show their toes. Fang mouth cloth shoes, I wear shovel shovel. Some children wear moon shoes, one pair a month. Mother has to wash clothes in the river, and often sew clothes at night.
There are six households in our yard, and there are more than a dozen children. After dinner in the summer, the mats were taken out of their doorsteps. The children caught and found that they were tired of playing games. They fell asleep on the table. The old mother used a fan to play mosquitoes with a fan. We woke up the next morning and we were all on the cymbal. It turned out that the old mother didn’t wake everyone up at night, and she was afraid of cooling, and she hugged them one by one.
That’s it. One year after year, the old mother supported the home with the physical disability body.
My grandfather died early, and my grandma had been alone, and my four uncle worked as a soldier in Inner Mongolia. Grandma was after the war. At that time, the gun building of the Kuomintang army was on the Beishan of Grandma’s house. The bullets hit the yard when liberated. So grandma was worried about the uncle all the time all day long. When she saw a house to find a wooden worker to make wood, she thought that she was a stretcher, lifted the wounded, and wanted to fight. She couldn’t sleep well all day. One night, my mother accompanied her to Tianzhuang to watch the open -air movie. The generator suddenly rang. My grandma was frightened and couldn’t afford to get sick. No one else is at home, and the mother is looking for Chinese medicine to worship the Buddha, feeding medicine and feeding. After three years of maintenance, grandma’s illness was better. How hard my mother had paid, only she and grandma knew. The mother followed my grandma at the age of thirteen. They were both mother and mother -in -law, and their feelings were as deep as mother and daughter. After my grandmother was sick, I went to Boshan’s uncle’s elder brother’s house to see him for ten years.
Not only do the mother work hard day and night, but also the big things at home must also take care of it. The three newly built -in houses in my family, from the foundation, finding people, blanking, woodworking woodcuts, looking for stonemiths, small workers, looking for people, etc., all of them were organized by my mother. Buying a house is a very complicated project. The house we built is the brick body and the chrysanthemum. At that time, the house in the village was basically a stone handle and a stone. The villagers are envious. The house I lived in my family was an old house passed down by the older generation.
The old mother has no culture, but attaches great importance to the children’s learning. I never delayed learning because of the busyness of farm work. I did not delay a lesson in elementary school. In junior high school, it was the Cultural Revolution. Although the study was abnormal, the old mother still spread pancakes every week and sent me to school. As long as you are willing to go to school, she will give you.
My father was hospitalized in six or nine years due to stomach bleeding, and then he had a disease protection. He died in March 1971. During this period, my mother had been taking care of my father in Boshan.
My father went to our commune to recruit indexes after the market. I was recruited to Hewang Iron Mine. After joining the work, in order to reduce the burden on the old mother economy. I leave 15 yuan per month, and the remaining ones are given to my old mother or went to the temple collection to buy a grain back. I rarely buy clothes in the mine. I remember that it might be in 1976. When I was in the three sections of the work, the institutions had organized a group of national defense services, and I also set one. This is the first time to add clothes in the past five years, and it is basically mainly worn in work. I did n’t buy new clothes when I got married. Marriage photos were the shadow of wearing this defense.
After the reform and opening up, family conditions improved. I secretly determined that I must let my mother enjoy a blessing in the second half of her life and live a comfortable life. I first wish my old mother every year to ask my old mother, asking for all my children, grandson, grandson, and grandson to come, and I moved to my uncle, Xunzi, cousin, aunt, etc. The two younger brothers in the family cleaned in advance and prepared dishes. Whenever a long time, the small yard came in more than 20 people. The old mother was very happy, and the villagers were very envious. My lover also bought the old man who had not brought two generations of people to get married for the elderly. The old man was frugal throughout his life, and he was afraid of his children to find trouble. Sometimes he went home to leave her a few dollars. You pushed me to let Laba not collect it for a long time. Later, she could only secretly put her in one place. After returning to Zhangdian, I called her again.
Later, the children of my younger brothers were old, and I wanted her to come to the shop to follow me. Start try to get heating in winter, and then go back to your hometown when you stop the heating. In the first year, she agreed to agree, and I thought it was a few days of blessing for the old mother to enjoy this time. I do n’t let her do anything. I cook firewood at home. I use liquefied gas here, afraid of danger, and do not let her intervene. The lover helped her take a bath, and replaced her new clothes inside and outside. When we were not at home, she also helped us brush the bowl and sometimes stole clothes for us. She is also different from us. After dinner, she accompanied her to watch TV. She was sleepy and went to bed. At five o’clock in the morning, she got up, and she was afraid of getting movement, as if she had lost her freedom. She does everything at home and does nothing here. She felt that she had eaten leisurely, and she was uneasy and uncomfortable. The next year she changed her mind. Let me pick her up in the twenty -three lunar month and go back on the fifteenth month of the first month. In the third year, I pushed back again, and let me pick her up when I went back to the grave in thirty year, and the time to live here has been shortened. During the Spring Festival, my mother liked to be lively, so I accompanied her to watch the lanterns and went to the museum to watch fifteen. She worshiped the Bodhisattva at home, and I invited her back to a bodhisattva when I set off. She was very happy to burn incense on time and pray that the Bodhisattva bless children to be healthy and safe. But after the fifth day, she was uncertain and asked to go, and she couldn’t sleep well at night.
I can’t understand it, eat well here, live well, and don’t have to worry about it. Why can’t she stay? Once a friend’s party, I told the old friend to listen to it. He said that, like his old mother, lived with his children, and could not live. He rented a house for his mother alone and lived. The old man was unwilling to add a burden on the child and was afraid of renting a house, so he told her that the house was a colleague and did not need to pay the rent. I think this method is going on. My lover has a public rental house in Zhangdian Xisi Road. As a result, the old mother moved happily, and never mentioned her hometown. I go to eat with her at noon every day, and go to see what happened at night. I was afraid that she was lonely to match her TV. Later, I analyzed why she was willing to live in her hometown, mainly because she lived in her own casual restrictions, and there was a group of old sisters who had nothing to say. So I told the old ladies who were familiar with the front and rear buildings that my mother had just come out of the countryside and let them pull her family often with her. My brother also often sent small cabbage, corn, kidney beans and other agricultural products. The old mother also gave it to the neighbors, and the relationship was handled well. My heart was finally settled, and when my son did a filial piety.
It has been a whole ten years since the old mother has left, but the children can’t forget the seemingly nagging entrustment of the old mother: “Whether it is at home or outside, we must work solidly and obey the leadership.” “Skin”, “Help us when it is difficult, you must remember it.” Don’t stick to the cheapness of others and the public. “
These instructions have been echoed in my mind, which also affected my life.
In 1993, the mother took a photo with our family of three.
In 2006, the whole family in Zhangdian’s family.
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