At 8 months of Yali’s baby, Yali always wanted to give the baby the best things and the most love.
Yali bought a group of large bubble building blocks and a set of Barbie dolls for the baby yesterday. My mother -in -law saw a toy for the baby, and she was unhappy. Buy toys for children, many toys babies can not play, and they are too late to play, so buying toys will only waste money …………
After listening to her mother -in -law’s words, Yali was grieved. She just wanted to buy more toys for the baby, so that the baby had a happy childhood. Unlike when he was young, his parents never bought toys for themselves. They saw that other children had dolls and hairy bears. They were full of envy and always longed for these toys. My daughter also experiences it, so I usually buy more toys for my child.
△ Is there a lot of your baby’s toys?
Many novice mothers believe that the more toys you buy for children, the better, the toys can allow children to understand the world in the amusement, explore unknown, enhance their cognitive ability and hands -on ability.
At the same time, toys are also an inseparable part of children’s childhood happiness, so the more the better, the child’s experience will become richer and richer.
In fact, children’s toys are not more good, and too many toys will be counterproductive.
The number of scholars from the University of Virginia is 5! The reason is: the toys are not too much, 5 are just right.
The most direct consequence of toys is that the child’s concentration is severely destroyed.
Cathy Qianlva, a professor of education psychology at Oxford University in the United Kingdom, believes that too many toys are easy to disperse children’s attention, and when children are not energetic, they cannot learn or play better.
In life, we can often hear our parents say that their children’s attention is not concentrated. Only after playing the car for 3 minutes, we started playing dinosaurs again. After a few minutes of dinosaurs, they started playing block blocks …
This makes parents feel that their children like everything, and they don’t seem to like anything. For children who have not yet formed, in the face of too many toys, moving this and touching that is easy to distract, but it is difficult to focus on one of them. Essence
Second, buy too many toys for children so that children will not cherish. When you buy a toy for your child, the child will feel novel, and the longer you play.
Third, children have too many toys, inconvenient storage and sorting, and it is easy to occupy places.
Fourth, buying too many toys for your child is a large amount of expense. There are many places where the child uses money in the future and spends money on the blade.
Parents to choose toys for their children are also a technical job. They have to buy right and have to buy well. They not only meet the children’s cognitive ability, but also bring fun to their children.
Below, Ding Ma introduced to the novice mothers suitable for the 0-12-month baby to play toys for your reference, only buy the right, not expensive.
△ 0–1 month baby
The newborn newborn, the main task is to eat and sleep every day, eat and sleep, and eat less time every day. Despite this, parents can still use toys to develop their babies’ intelligence.
Black and white card
The baby’s visual function is available at 7 months of the fetus, but the eyes of the newborn can not be focused well. You can only see things from 20 cm to 30 cm in front of your eyes.
That is, the distance between the mother’s face and the face of the newborn every time the mother breastfeeds the newborn. Although it is not clear to see things, the newborn always stares at the surroundings when she is quietly awakened.
Parents can use simple outlines and black and white black and white cards, which can promote the visual and brain development of babies.
△ 2–3 months baby
Babies can only concentrate their sights in the full moon to 2 months and see a kind of object. During this period, they could listen to the voices around quietly, but the color consciousness was poor.
The suspension toys can be hung around the crib. At first, it can stimulate the baby’s reciprocity, and gradually allow the baby to practice grasping, knocking, and feeling.
Parents choose bright and large music rotating toys to stimulate the development of the baby’s hearing. It is hung in a suitable position to facilitate the baby’s ability to see, touch, touch, to exercise the baby’s hands -on ability, train your baby’s imagination and creativity, and at the same time It can also stimulate the baby’s pleasure.
For example, color balloons, inflatable animals, cartoon characters, etc., can also choose a bed bell or wind chime with music.
In 2–3 months, the mirror is also a baby’s toy toy. When the baby sees the fine self and mother, he will feel particularly happy and surprised. Slowly let your baby learn a smile on the mirror. develop.
△ 4–5 months baby
At this stage, the baby’s vision has improved, and you can see a red pill with a diameter of 3 mm. Due to the accurate vision and the progress of the hand, the small toys that can hit the hand can take the initiative to grab the static toys on the table, and the level of hand -eye coordination has improved.
You can grab toys that can easily grasp and make different sounds. In addition, it is best to choose toys with different colors, patterns, and different textures, such as small rattles, wave drums, plastic squeeze toys, sand hammers, puppets, etc. Essence
These toys can develop the development of babies’ vision, listening, and tactile coordination ability, and are also convenient for the development of fine movements such as grasping, holding, pinching, and squeeze.
If the baby is focusing on playing a toy, don’t give him other toys, otherwise he will not play at any kind of toy.
Baby fitness rack
The fitness rack is also a good choice. When the baby sees the fitness rack, he will automatically wave his arm, and you will touch the toy when you wave your arm. The toys move or make a sound of the baby’s interest, so he will be interested in listening, watching, and constantly swinging his arms to touch the rope, or kicking toys with pedals.
△ 6–7 months baby
At this stage, the baby’s fingers and big movements have a qualitative leap. Learn to use your thumb and other fingers to oppose the objects, and gradually practice to hold things stabilize, one hand, one hand, knocking and passing the hand.
The baby gradually learned to sit alone.
Music hand shot drum
Through this game, you can exercise the power of your baby’s palm and make your fingers more flexible;
Baby can also exercise the baby’s timely response ability by patting the drum playing keys;
In addition, the baby can understand the source of the sound, understand the cause and effect between the sound and the knocking action, and at the same time enhance the baby’s left brain’s sound memory ability.
△ 8–9 months baby
Babies of 8–9 months, babies can sit up or climb to the place I want to go;
Being able to hold an object or stand on the object by yourself, but you must sit down with the help of others.
The development of fine movements: Can hold the building blocks with the thumb, index finger, and the thumb and index finger can cooperate with the small toys, small paper pieces on the ground.
Crossing the roller coaster
The baby’s small hand is promoted to move back and forth on the orbit. The small eyes always follow the movement of the around beads. In addition to playing this toy, the baby can exercise the ability of the hand -eye coordination and the development of fine movements, and it can also improve its concentration.
△ Baby of 10-11 months
During this period, babies can stand up independently with the palm of their hand. Pastening furniture can support the followers.
Generally, two small items can be used with one hand. Some babies may also use both hands, holding it with one hand, and playing with one hand.
Generally speaking, babies prefer animal -shaped puppets. On the one hand, it can improve the baby’s cognitive ability, such as knowing the name of animals, learning animals to speak;
Second, parents put a puppet on the index finger, and they called the baby’s name in their mouths. Let the puppet around the circle and see if the baby’s sight can follow. Sports can be changed arbitrarily. It can effectively cultivate the baby’s visual sensitivity and movement capabilities.
Third, parents can simulate puppets to speak, guide babies to learn, and can also trigger the baby’s curiosity and interest.
△ 12 -month -old baby
Generally speaking, 12 -month -old babies can stagnate and walk independently. At this time, the baby’s exploration is more intense, and he likes to climb away and explore everywhere.
The baby will pinch small objects with your thumb and index finger or thumb and middle finger, and use your index finger to take what he wants.
Drag a baby car
When the baby is about 1 year old, it is a critical period for walking walking. Through the gaming action such as push, pulling, and fidelity of the opponent, it can exercise the baby’s physical balance and promote the coordination of the baby’s physical aspects.
When you buy toys for your baby, you must choose according to the age characteristics of your baby. As long as it is a suitable toy, it is the best toy.
Ten toys are not the most expensive toys, but can stimulate the baby’s interest, promote functional development, broaden the baby’s vision, and ultimately promote the baby’s brain development.
In addition, Basene, a child education expert who first proposed “emotional guidance education” in the United States, believes that parents are the best “toys” for children. Parents need to accompany their children and give their children more attention and love. This is any toy. Can’t bring to children.